Relationship Advice: Check out THESE 8 signs to know if you are dating a playboy
He's too perfect to be real and something smells fishy. It's too unrealistic and something about him doesn't sit right with you. Could you be dating a playboy? Find out.
Being in a relationship means you're looking forward to a lot of things from all the love to cuddles to the loyalty but what happens when you unknowingly end up with a playboy who won't be offering you anything at all? Spotting a playboy has become a herculean task these days because they've managed to learn the art of blending in.
They know how to play you and all that just to add another notch to their belt! You'll just be another number on their scoreboard and nothing more because that's just how playboys are.
We all hope to change the playboy or change the game but that's not really very realistic because the probability of a playboy leaving the field is a lot lesser than you become his prey! This is mostly because once in love, we often turn a blind eye to the red flags and turn ignorant of all the signs we should take seriously! Being with a playboy only means one thing, heartbreak.
A playboy isn't going to commit and he isn't going to ever offer you true love or loyalty because he's all about the game. This is why it's important to spot the signs that tell you that your man is a playboy and has been playing you all along.
Here are the signs that you're in a relationship with a playboy:
1. He does not accept or acknowledge you in public. Your relationship is a secret, more like his dirty laundry that he wouldn't want to dry out in the public.
2. He's careless with his money. He splurges without thinking and he'll go miles to blow money and show off in front of you and impress you but he's probably just as careless with his relationships as well.
3. He often bails on you. He's got too many women on the side and often forgets who he made plans with. That's probably why he bails on you so often.
4. He's too quick to jump into bed with you. He's always eager for some action and often calls you late at night for some! He makes you feel more like a booty call and less like his girlfriend.
5. He's a tad bit too confident. Being self-confident is nice, but he comes across as a little bit more than just that. Rather he's too cocky.
6. You're like an open book and he knows everything about you but you, on the other hand, don't know much about him. He's like a mystery you haven't been able to solve.
7. You've never been to his place and never met his friends or his folks. He keeps you an arm's length away when it comes to his personal life.
8. Your relationship feels very superficial. He is not as involved in it as you are. He doesn't take any initiative or much interest in the relationship and you don't go out on dates like couples usually do! He does not open up emotionally. It seems like he's hiding something. He doesn't even seem real or involved in a relationship.
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