Cancer to Leo: 4 Meanest Zodiac Signs And What Triggers Them to Be Unkind
Our behavior and moods can be multifaceted. So, you may see some star signs react to situations somewhat unkindly without recognizing their good intentions.
While most people view mean behavior negatively, taking a magnifying glass to peek at the underlying motivations is crucial when you witness this behavior coming from those closest to you. Whether they were simply looking out for themselves, standing up to a bully, or protecting a loved one by lashing out; there could be several potential roots of what we perceive as unkindness in these folks.
By understanding and appreciating these aspects of their personality, we can have greater empathy and insight into their minds. So, without further ado, here’s a look at who these zodiac signs are and what triggers them to be mean:
Cancer
Cancerians are homely souls who prioritize family values and treasure honesty in life. This is why they are not afraid to express their true feelings and opinions, even if it means coming across as harsh. In fact, they hope to build a life where transparency is valued over superficial niceties where people are kind to one another’s face while cursing them when their backs are turned. Perhaps this is why these water signs are perceived as mean when they are being direct and straightforward.
What’s more, Cancerians deem that even in their office or in the course of their courtship with their boo, honesty can lead to quick problem-solving and genuine relationships. As time passes, their loved ones go on to recognize the value of speaking from the heart and the strength it takes for Cancer to be truthful in a world where sugar-coating is quite common.
Aries
Aries are fire signs with tender hearts who believe that being assertive to the point of being mildly aggressive will get them all that they seek in life. In fact, they often come across moments early in life where their sensitive feelings are trampled upon by cruel friends or the harsh realities of the world. Hence, they learn to establish boundaries to protect themselves. However, this may sometimes be perceived as mean and cause them to appear aloof from their loved ones.
Yet, by clearly communicating their boundaries, these Rams (the symbol of Aries) hope to prevent others from overstepping them. They simply ensure that their needs and values are respected at home as well as in their friend circle. Therefore, their meanness is actually a positive proclamation of Aries’ self-worth and integrity. It is the Ram’s way of teaching others how to treat them.
Leo
When you look at a fierce Leo, you may see someone who has sturdy armor around their heart. At times, they may seem to be confident, stoic, and even mean. But this behavior can be a display of strength in their eyes. For example, Leos who are tough and seemingly unapproachable often have a certain resilience that has been forged by overcoming a lot of challenges in life. Be it losing a loved one, betrayal from friends, or even experiencing teenage heartbreak, Leos feel that their toughness can help them maintain an inner strength in facing adversities in the future.
So, their demeanor is a way to navigate a world that has not always been kind to them. Yet, their resilience serves as a powerful example of perseverance. By understanding this, their friends eventually come to admire these Lions and learn valuable lessons from their determination.
Scorpio
Right from their teenage years, the natives of this water sign put a strong focus on achieving greatness. So, they seek to befriend buddies who have dreams and aspirations just like themselves. Along the way, Scorpio’s razor-sharp focus on their goals may cause them to come across as mean because they are driven by a desire to motivate others to improve. This attitude only intensifies if they find themselves in positions as coaches, mentors, or leaders who push their teams hard.
But the Scorpion’s (the symbol of Scorpio) intention is never negative, for they may want to aid their pupils or even their nieces and nephews to reach their full potential in terms of their studies, sporting games, or even physical fitness. Scorpio firmly deems that tough love can lead to a great deal of growth and foster a culture of excellence. So, they insist on having high standards that come from good intentions and a push towards continual improvement.
At their core, these zodiac signs feel that assertiveness helps them maintain healthy relationships and self-respect with their peer interactions as well as with their lovers. Fortunately, over time, their loved ones appreciate the quirks and qualities of these individuals and come to recognize their good intentions.
Disclaimer: These attributes are generic and may not necessarily hold true for you.